What to Say to a Friend With Infertility

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Hi guys. Tamara here. Did you know that up to 15% of couples experience infertility?

I’ll bet that if I asked if anyone close to you had ever dealt with infertility you would say yes. As common as infertility is, and even though taboos around it are dissipating, it can still be very hard to know what to say to a friend with infertility if you have never experienced it yourself.

I tried for 7 years to have my beautiful son. In that time I watched my friends have their first, second, and even third children while I longed for my first. It was an extremely difficult time of my life and I know all too well how much well-intentioned, but misguided words from loved ones can sting.

I’m here today to help you navigate this delicate subject and offer some advice on what to say to a friend with infertility (and definitely what not say).

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Standing Up For Your Babies

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Hey y’all! Jess again! Let’s talk about consent. I’ll explain more on this with a story.

With cooler weather come the dreaded germs that all moms fear. You know what I’m talking about. This is the time when you get extra paranoid about anyone coming near your baby!

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I don’t blame you. I am the exact same. My daughter was born in December at the height of the flu season last year and I was terrified.

From the very beginning, I was adamant about everyone washing their hands and using hand sanitizer before touching my precious tiny baby.

As time has passed and my daughter has grown, I have become a little less stressed about germs (which led to her getting hand, foot, and mouth. Can you say annoying?).

I saw a meme a few days ago that reminded me of how difficult it is to parent when there are so many fears- including germs.

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My daughter is almost 11 months. Last week, there was a small but meaningful incident that once again reassured me I should always stand up for what I believe!

Let me tell you a story.
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How To Get Your Partner On Board With Cloth Diapering

How To Get Your Partner On Board With Cloth Diapering

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Hey guys! Ariel here, and this week, I want to help you get your partner on board with cloth diapering.

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On a recent post in the LilHelper Facebook Group, an alarmingly high number of parents admitted that their partners totally refuse to change any diapers since they switched to using cloth!

How To Get Your Partner On Board With Cloth Diapering

This post is a consolidated guide to helping you convert your partner to the cloth side. Don’t worry guys, I’ve got your back.

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